Do You Want to Become a Father?
How to Face Your Biggest Fears & Decide What’s Best For You.
Nov 08, 2023


"I always figured I’d become a father."

"Becoming a father seemed like the...

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Ann’s Interview on The Imperfects Podcast: "Should You Have Children?" Apr 13, 2023

Recently, I had the amazing opportunity to join Hugh van Cuylenburg, Josh van...

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"When are you going to have kids?"~ 5 Tips on How to Respond Nov 21, 2022

"When are you going to have kids?"

"When will I get grandchildren?"

"Are you EVER...

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"Her desire and mine were at odds..." Oct 15, 2017

It’s easy to feel defensive and afraid when your partner expresses that he or...

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The Advantage of Ambivalence (and the Downside of Certainty) Aug 07, 2017

Certainty can look good in the face of not having it. When you feel vulnerable, are...

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What NOT to Say to Someone Struggling with Motherhood Indecision Nov 29, 2016

 

Women who can’t answer the question, “Do you want to...

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Men: You Can Decide to Decide About Fatherhood Nov 01, 2016

Dear Men,

I’ve worked with so many of you over the years, but I still feel sad...

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Indecision Oct 04, 2016

I recently had the pleasure of musing over Edward Ruscha’s 1982 Indecision,...

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