Should I Become a Father?
As you think deeply about fatherhood, it can be hard to figure out what you actually want… Â
Be guided step-by-step through Ann’s proven method deepened through meditations, mentorship, and live teachings — to uncover your inner truth and discover what’s right for you.
Do Any of These Apply to Your Current Situation?Â
- Do you and your partner have different opinions about whether to become parents?
- Do you wonder what your life would look like with a family — and whether you can have the life you most want?
- Perhaps deep down, you’re not sure whether you could be the kind of father you’d want to be.
- Or maybe you feel that “you’re supposed to” want to become a parent or it’s what others expect from you…
- Or you feel like you have to decide right now — and you’re worried you’ll make a decision, then regret it.
- Not being able to decide whether you want to be a father is more complex than your external circumstances.

If you’re ready to find clarity, you've come to the right place….Â
Ann Davidman, MFT — creator of the proven Parenthood Clarity™ Process — has collected several resources on fatherhood just for YOU.
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Interested in Scheduling a 1:1 Discovery Session with Ann?
You can schedule a 1:1 session with Ann to address your most pressing questions and to help get clarity on your next steps. She’s helped thousands of people who are right where you are.
A few notes before you schedule your session with Ann…
The 1:1 Discovery Session is for individuals only. If you are in a couple, you will each schedule your private sessions separately.
The 1:1 session fee is $300. If you sign up for one of the clarity courses, $200 will be credited to the course of your choice — whether you decide to register for the Motherhood, Fatherhood, or Private Clarity Course.
There are no refunds for cancellations made within 72 hours. If you need to reschedule, your fee will be transferred to your new appointment time.
If you have questions before you schedule your appointment, you can contact Ann directly by using the contact form at the bottom of the page.
If You & Your Partner Are Pregnant
Do not set up a Discovery Session...
Instead, contact Ann (using the contact form at the bottom of this page) and describe your current situation. You will receive an email from Ann describing your options of how she can help. You’re not alone. Many women reach out to Ann who are pregnant and need to resolve their feelings of ambivalence sooner than later.Â
The video on this page offers answers to many of the questions people address in their 1:1 Discovery Session with Ann. If you would still like to schedule an appointment with Ann after watching the video, you can schedule your session here:Â Meet with Ann.
Ann's Bio

Psychotherapists Ann Davidman and Denise L. Carlini created the program, Motherhood — Is It For Me?™ in the San Francisco Bay Area in 1991 to provide a resource to women experiencing ambivalence about motherhood. So often, these women felt shame or judged about their indecision. Ann and Denise created support groups that allowed women to explore the issue free of judgment and discover their heart’s desire about whether they wanted to become mothers or live a childfree life. Ann and Denise led the groups together for 10 years.
In 2000, Ann Davidman began helping individual women and men find
clarity about whether they wanted to be parents through her private
psychotherapy practice in the San Francisco Bay area. She now offers her Motherhood Clarity™ Course and Fatherhood Clarity™ Course to individuals and groups in her online course.
Ann Davidman, MFT, is a licensed marriage and family therapist, Parenthood Clarity™ Mentor and author. She received her graduate degree from San Francisco State University and is a member of the California Association of Marriage and Family Therapists (CAMFT). You can read more about Ann here.