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Resources

Ann's Blog:

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Books

Deciding

Dell, Diana L., and Erem, Susan.  Do I Want To Be a Mom?  A Women’s Guide to the Decision of a Lifetime.  New York:  Contemporary Books McGraw-Hill, 2004.

Engel, Beverly.  The Parenthood Decision:  Discovering Whether You Are Ready and Willing to Become a Parent.  New York:  Main Street Book, Doubleday, 1998.

Wade, Donna, with Kovacs, Liberty, Ph.D.  I Want a Baby, He Doesn’t:  How Both Partners Can Make the Right Decision at the Right Time.  Avon, Massachusetts:  Adams Media, 2005.

Walker, Rebecca.  Baby Love:  Choosing Motherhood After a Lifetime of Ambivalence.  New York:  Riverhead Books, the Penguin Group, 2007.

Ziman Tobin, Phyllis O., with Aria, Barbara.  Motherhood Optional:  A Psychological Journey.  New Jersey:  Jason Aronson, 1998.

Redefining Motherhood

Douglas, Susan J., and Michaels, Meredith W.  The Mommy Myth:  The Idealization of Motherhood and How It Has Undermined All Women.  New York:  Free Press, Simon and Schuster, Inc., 2005.

Crittenden, Ann.  The Price of Motherhood:  Why the Most Important Job In the World Is Still the Least Valued.  New York:  Metropolitan Books, Henry Holt and Company, 2001.

Ireland, Mardy S.  Reconceiving Women:  Separating Motherhood From Female Identity.  New York:  The Guilford Press, 1993.

Maschka, Kristen.  This Is Not How I Thought It Would Be:  Remodeling Motherhood To Get the Lives We Want Today.  New York:  Berkeley Books, Penguin Group, 2009.

Maushart, Susan.  The Mask of Motherhood:  How Becoming a Mother Changes Everything and Why We Pretend It Doesn’t.  New York:  The New Press, 1999.

Single Motherhood

Hertz, Rosanna.  Single by Chance, Mothers by Choice:  How Women Are Choosing Parenthood Without Marriage and Changing the American Family.  Oxford:  Oxford University Press, 2006.

Mattes, Jane, C.S.W.  Single Mothers by Choice:  A Guidebook For Single Women Who Are Considering or Have Chosen Motherhood.  New York:  Times Books, Random House, 1994.

Morrissette, Mikki.  Choosing Single Motherhood:  The Thinking Woman’s Guide.  New York:  Houghton Mifflin Company, 2008.

Childless / Childfree

Lafayette, Leslie.  Why Don’t You Have Kids?  Living a Full Life Without Parenthood.  New York:  Kensington Publishing Corporation, 1995.

Scott, Laura S.  Two Is Enough:  A Couple’s Guide To Living Childless By Choice.  Berkeley:  Seal Press, Perseus Books Group, 2009.

Walker, Ellen L., Ph.D.  Complete Without Kids:  An Insider’s Guide to Childfree Living By Choice or By Chance.  Austin, Texas:  Greenleaf Book Group Press, 2011.

Other Good Books

Bender, Karen E., and de Gramont, Nina, editors.  Choice:  True Stories of Birth, Contraception, Infertility, Adoption, Single Parenthood, and Abortion.  San Francisco:  MacAdam Cage, 2007.

Borysenko, Joan, Ph.D.  A Women’s Book of Life:  The Biology, Psychology, and Spirituality of the Feminine Life Cycle.  New York:  Riverhead Books, 1996.

Leibovich, Lori, editor.  Maybe Baby:  28 Writers Tell the Truth About Skepticism, Infertility, Baby Lust, Childlessness, Ambivalence, and How They Made the Biggest Decision of Their Lives.  New York:  Harper Collins Publishers, 2006.

Linton, Bruce, Ph.D. Finding Time for Fatherhood: Men’s Concerns as Parents. Berkeley, CA: Berkeley Hills Books, 2000.

Payne, Niravi and Richardson, Lee. The Language of Fertility: A Revolutionary Mind-Body Program for Conscious Conception.  New York: Harmony Books, 1997

Toevs, Kim, and Brill, Stephanie.   The Essential Guide to Lesbian Conception, Pregnancy, and Birth.  Los Angeles: Alyson Publications, 2002.

Websites that support Parents & Children, Childfree Living, Queer Families:

HandInHandParenting.org

FathersForum.com

MaiaMidwifery.com

ChildlessByChoiceProject.com

Articles:

Ready for a Baby?
by Alexia Elejalde-Ruiz
Tribune Newspapers | September 14, 2011

Motherhood-Is it for me?
by Rheba Estane
Examiner.com

Ready for a family?
People struggle with whether – and when – to have kids

Bendbulletin.com

Article: Is Parenthood for you?
By Ann Bartz

 

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