Fatherhood?

YES! There is a program for men!

Only you can know what's true for you.
I'll help you get there.

I often hear men say, “I’m ok either way. Whatever my partner wants will work for me.”

Your true desire matters! You deserve to find out what’s true for you.

Call me and I’ll help you discover what that is.

Fatherhood-Is it for Me?™
Gain clarity in 12 short weeks.

The Fatherhood-Is it for Me? Program™:

Each week I do an exercise with you followed by a written home exploration assignment. You can expect a combination of experiential & writing exercises. The safe & structured environment that I provide creates an excellent opportunity to explore and understand the many feelings associated with fatherhood. 

Not being able to decide is more complex than external circumstances.

Whether you are single or partnered, of any sexual orientation, cultural background and/or of any age I invite you into this program of discovery of what is true for you.

If you are part of a couple having differences in your desires about parenting it is useful for each of you to explore this issue individually. This allows for each person to have a confidential and uncensored experience.

The program is designed to assist you in reaching a deeper understanding of the ambivalence or neutrality you might feel so that you can take the next step.

The Fatherhood – Is it for me? Program™ is an excellent adjunct to those currently in therapy, as well as providing a wonderful opportunity of exploration to those not in therapy or new to therapy.

Exploring this issue is also appropriate for you even if you have decided one way or the other but still want to feel more solid about your decision. 

I do not have an agenda for you.  I am not invested in whether or not you become a father. I am invested in assisting you so that you can make a decision that you feel passionate about. I do not underestimate this very important decision.

Call me to make an appointment!

Phone sessions are available.

Your true desire matters!  It matters to me. 
I’ll help you discover what it is.

Call me  510-595-4629.

How do I know if this program is really for me?

If you have ever had any of the following thoughts this program is for you:

	“Whatever my partner wants will be fine with me. I can go either way!”
	“I’m scared about never having time for myself and then resenting my child.
	“My partner wants children and I don’t and I don’t want the relationship to end over this.”
	“I’m the only son, if I don’t have children the family name will end with me.”
	“I’m afraid I’ll be like my father.”
	“My parents want grandchildren.”
	“I never imagined I would have a family...now I think I want one.”
	“Everybody says I’d be a good father.  Does that mean I have to have children?”

Remember –
What you want matters!
It matters to me!

Call me and I’ll help you figure it out.

510-595-4629